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Have You Been Double Crossed Today?

What is the shortest path to the one I’m already on?

When I was in college years ago I took a public speaking course, and for my thesis I spoke on what I wanted to be when I grew up. I spoke at length about being happy. That’s what I wanted for myself when I grew up; to be happy.

It was a unique idea, and I got the attention of my audience.

I was nervous, but the material was well prepared, and I spoke from a true desire, and with an honesty, and with an open mindedness born of abandoning the world and finding what I might see of the world without any of my own notions about what it is.

I did well in the class, but it was just a public speaking class. It wasn’t pre-med or the bar exam. I spoke about how I saw happiness as being a choice. Perhaps not so much a conscious effort, but a choice none the less. People get tangled up in the blocks to being happy. There is a difference, from wanting something, and being disappointed by not having it.

When people get stuck they can become untangled if they remember what they wanted was to be happy, and just move into that. It’s an option.

So, whatever.

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Okay,
Father Luke

Filed under: So - whatever — Written by Father Luke at 7:06 pm on Monday, October 2nd, 2006

4 Comments »

laine goes like this...

Monday, October 2nd, 2006

the shortest path to the one you’re already on…
stand still,
turn your head,
change your point of view.

SugarSkull goes like this...

Tuesday, October 3rd, 2006

Good choice Father Luke. Keep it simple, keep it flowing, and keep on trucking.

Dr Z goes like this...

Wednesday, October 11th, 2006

The big difficulty with happiness is that it’s hard to know what it looks like, so when you see it, you’re not always sure it’s what you’ve got in front of you.

Nitallica goes like this...

Wednesday, October 11th, 2006

I would have liked to have heard your speech, Padre. Jim and I have been trying to convey a similar message to Jessie … her mother is one of those “chronically unhappy” types, and unfortunately Jessie has picked up that grim lookout as well. :(

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